Join us for this episode of The Miracle You podcast with your host Vince Kramer of Imagine Miracles. In this episode, Vince welcomes special guest Lora Cheadle as they discuss Lora’s experience of betrayal and how it changed her life. Betrayed and broken, Lora Cheadle’s life took an unexpected turn when she discovered her husband’s 15-year infidelity. But what she did next is what truly sets her apart. Follow Lora’s journey of resilience, healing, and self-discovery as she transforms the worst thing that ever happened to her into the best. The twist in this story will leave you inspired and wanting more.
An attorney, TEDx speaker, life and leadership coach, Lora Cheadle believes that betrayal uncovers the truth of what’s possible when we stop focusing on what was done to us and start showing up for ourselves. Instead of soothing the symptoms of burnout, she shows professionals how to identify and resolve its root cause, which is oftentimes betrayal. Whether that betrayal is from a person, system, or something more personal, Lora shows individuals, teams, and groups how to break free from burnout so they can stay engaged, innovative, and satisfied both at home and at work for the long haul.
She is the creator of the Life Choreography® burnout-recovery framework and leads Step into Your Moxie® corporate workshops and training that help participants speak up and advocate for themselves, their companies, and the ideas that matter most. Lora also works with women who have been betrayed by their intimate partner and want to use their devastation as an invitation to reclaim their identity and self-worth so they can develop the clarity and confidence to build their own happily ever after. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, and Spiritual Self has spoken and trained internationally and is the host of the top-rated podcast, FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Episode Resources:
Official Website: www.loracheadle.com
Instagram: @LoraCheadle
Facebook: @lora.cheadle
Twitter: @LifeChoreo
Free Gift: www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com
Email: [email protected]
Three Key Points:
We can navigate the overwhelming emotions caused by betrayal as we explore disillusionment as a stepping stone to self-discovery.
As you overcome the all-encompassing pain stemming from betrayal, you can leverage the experience of betrayal for self-improvement.
You can achieve purpose and healing through self-awareness and self-acceptance and turn the pain of betrayal into a chance for personal evolution.
Show Notes:
02:04 – Vince introduces Lora Cheadle, an attorney, TEDx speaker, and burnout and Betrayal recovery specialist. Laura works with people who have been betrayed and want to turn their devastation into an invitation.
05:07 – Lora shares her wake-up call when she discovered that her husband had been cheating on her for 15 years.
09:24 – Lora explains how discovering her husband’s infidelity was the best and worst thing that ever happened to her. She talks about how it opened her eyes to his flaws and her own wounding.
16:02 – Learn the importance of using the energy from a wake-up call constructively. She talks about how it’s all energy and how it’s important to focus the direction of that energy to create something positive.
18:23 – Discover how labeling an experience such as betrayal as good or bad can limit a person’s perspective on the situation. She encourages individuals to understand the underlying reasons for the betrayal.
21:37 – Lora explains that anger is often a secondary emotion that masks fear or pain. She encourages individuals to identify the root cause of their anger or pain and address it.
25:12 – We discuss the idea of soul agreements, where people come together for a period before separating to continue their individual growth journeys.
27:11 – Lora introduces her acronym Flaunt, which stands for Find Your Fetish, Laugh Out Loud, Accept Unconditionally, Navigate the Negative, and Trust in Your Truth. She encourages individuals to follow these five steps every day to rediscover joy, laughter, and trust in themselves.
29:26 – Lora emphasizes that betrayal can uncover the truth of what individuals are hiding from themselves, their wounds, and their innermost selves. She encourages people to be brave in facing their truths and using the joy of self-discovery to heal and
Imagine Miracles Resources:
- Your Unique Purpose Formula: Vince’s Five-Step Process to Discover Your Purpose and Your Miracle Life.
- C.R.E.A.T.E Model: Vince’s Six Steps to Creating and Living the Life that You Desire.
- Free Chapter: From Vince’s Best-selling Book Sharing the Four Things You Don’t Know Keeping You From Living a Miracle Life.